Feminine Fridays, Mindset

Three Ways to Improve Your Feminine Confidence

Confidence.  It is the beginning of so many wonderful opportunities.  It is something we all can develop within different areas of our lives.  Femininity is no different.  Femininity is a part of you- right now.  Whatever you want, you can attain.  It all starts with the right mindset, and when you couple with confidence you… Continue reading Three Ways to Improve Your Feminine Confidence

Beauty and Hygiene, Facial Skin and Neck

Skin Care at 40 and Above. How to Maintain the Generations of Beauty.

I’m in my mid-forties and skin care has never been more important. My personal take on skin care…I refuse to believe there is a magic pull, potion, powder or cream that can stop, reverse or change the aging process.  I only say this because there are so many celebrities and individuals (with blessed incomes) who… Continue reading Skin Care at 40 and Above. How to Maintain the Generations of Beauty.

Mindset

Do You Need to Update Your Self-Care Methods?

With all that is going on in the world and in our communities, your methods of self-care and restoration may need adjusting.  What worked perfectly before may not work so well now as things in our lives has drastically changed.  That is ok.  Keeping in tune with our senses, because we are human beings, you… Continue reading Do You Need to Update Your Self-Care Methods?

Beauty and Hygiene, Body Care

10 Tips to Maintain Excellent Feminine Hygiene

This post is for all women.  Regardless of your age or stage of life, this post does not assume anything.  Consider these tips as a refresher, a talk with a friend or as good ole advice from your favorite auntie🥰. 1.  Bathe head to toe at least once a day 🛁– including all folds and… Continue reading 10 Tips to Maintain Excellent Feminine Hygiene

Mindset

How to Open Your Mind to the Possibility of ‘What If’

Photo by Pablo García Saldaña on Unsplash Are you always second guessing yourself?  Do you make plans in your head but before you can even get to work on it, you talk yourself out of it?  Let’s talk. Sometimes our internal dialogue, the conversation we have with ourselves holds us back and we don’t realize it.  It is… Continue reading How to Open Your Mind to the Possibility of ‘What If’

Mindset

How to Create Your Own Blissful Spa Experience at Home

THE MINDSET OF LUXURY Nighttime can truly be a luxurious time you look forward to.   At the end of a long day, you can treat yourself to a little bit of luxury in your own private haven. Photo by Camille Brodard on Unsplash Luxury doesn’t have to mean expensive.  In fact, I think luxury comes in different forms… Continue reading How to Create Your Own Blissful Spa Experience at Home

Mindset

How to Stop Making Excuses to Yourself and Get That Thing Done!

Find Your Why Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com Before you commit to that thing you want to do, you know- the thing that you always seem to make an excuse for which prevents you from executing it, determine your why.  What does that even mean? Ask yourself why on earth you want to do this? … Continue reading How to Stop Making Excuses to Yourself and Get That Thing Done!

30 Days of Inspiration

25 April – Day Twenty -Five 30 Days of Inspiration

Listening to Other People’s Opinions Not to be crude, but you’ve heard the expression...Opinions are like a$$holes, everybody’s got one. When you get past the language, isn’t that a true statement.  I mean really.  Everyone has an opinion about everything.  Like it or not, that “everyone” umbrella includes you and I. It’s not the fact… Continue reading 25 April – Day Twenty -Five 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

24 April – Day Twenty – Four 30 Days of Inspiration

What a quote, huh? One day or day one.  You decide.  Author unknown. So simple, yet so profound. How many times have we said ‘one day’…with a spark and sheen in our eyes?  Absolute fire and desire.  All excited and expectant – and just left it there.  Flat.  An empty expectation.  A dream.  Your “one… Continue reading 24 April – Day Twenty – Four 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

23 April – Day Twenty Third 30 Days of Inspiration

Feeling Unappreciated Everyone wants to be appreciated. We want to be acknowledged for our successes and accomplishments.  Sometimes we want to be appreciated for our good deeds. Photo by Clay Banks on Unsplash It’s human nature I suppose.  We want people to be proud of us; especially when we work hard. What happens though, when our hard work… Continue reading 23 April – Day Twenty Third 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

21 April – Day Twenty-One 30 Days of Inspiration

Today I had to use my own advice and grant myself some grace.  Earlier this month, I wrote about how important it is to not only forgive yourself, but to give yourself some grace. Do you remember? Hopefully, you read that post📖. So, a personal thing about me…I am pre-diabetic and insulin resistant.  For years… Continue reading 21 April – Day Twenty-One 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

19 April – Day Nineteen 30 Days of Inspiration

The Power of a Smile Photo by Asa Dugger from Pexels Smiling is contagious.  I mean, when you walk into a room with a bright smile there is a certain type of energy that accompanies it.  Those around you may not only feel at ease but they will feel a wave of confidence from you.  This has been… Continue reading 19 April – Day Nineteen 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

18 April – Day Eighteen 30 Days of Inspiration

What Are You Grateful For Tonight? The new normal is very difficult to adjust too. Everybody is dealing with something and no one is going to be unscathed. Individuals are going hungry or running low on food. Individuals are losing their businesses. The stress of not being approved for the small business loans. Individuals are… Continue reading 18 April – Day Eighteen 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

17 April – Day Seventeen 30 Days of Inspiration

Beauty is Definitely an Inside Job As I get older, I realize that beauty is definitely an inside job. No matter how many wonderful eye creams, foundations, moisturizers, or lipsticks I’ve purchased and used, nothing takes the place of the basis of great health. I absolutely love makeup. I love the way it makes me… Continue reading 17 April – Day Seventeen 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

4-7-8 Have You Heard of It?

16 April Day Sixteen 30 Days of Inspiration Have you heard of 4-7-8?  I hadn’t either until about late last spring.  I was listening to different videos on YouTube about mindfulness and gratitude (I’ll link some that I love down below) and I stumbled across a video from Dr. Andrew Weil. In a nutshell, it’s… Continue reading 4-7-8 Have You Heard of It?

30 Days of Inspiration

14 April – Day Fourteen 30 Days of Inspiration

3 Ways to Instantly Boost Your Confidence P.S. You Can Do This!!! So, you wake up and you just aren’t feeling yourself.  Or, perhaps you are in a little confidence slump lasting a few more days than you’d like. Read on for my suggestions to put some pep back in your step. 1. Get out… Continue reading 14 April – Day Fourteen 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

13 April – Day Thirteen 30 Days of Inspiration

What's in your makeup bag? 🧐💄💋 If you’re like me you’ve probably been strolling through sephora.com, nars.com, amazon.com…just shopping away.  As I’m getting my goodies every few days, my heart is filled with joy.  On the other hand, I quietly say to myself…where are you going to put this?  Did I already have a shade… Continue reading 13 April – Day Thirteen 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

11 April – Day Eleven 30 Days of Inspiration

6 Ways to Include Olive Oil in Your Beauty Routine Not all beauty treatments are luxury boutique purchases.  Sometimes you can find efficient, practical treatments that work right in your kitchen pantry. Makeup Remover If you wear long wearing foundation, it is highly likely you double cleanse at night. If you are not familiar with… Continue reading 11 April – Day Eleven 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration, Mindset

10 April – Day Ten 30 Days of Inspiration

Practice The Pause Lovelies! I’m sure you’ve heard of this phrase…. practice the pause🤫. Always practice the pause As we go through our daily lives and we interact with others, it’s inevitable that we will come across some unsavory or less than desirable characters.  Although we are all human (which means we as feminine ladies… Continue reading 10 April – Day Ten 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

9 April – Day Nine 30 Days of Inspiration

All this time at home can bring on a lot of self-reflection, which is not a skill that is easily mastered.  While we are in deep thought and reflection remember to give yourself grace.  Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash Give yourself grace for your past mistakes.  Grace for doing the best with what you had. Grace for… Continue reading 9 April – Day Nine 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration, Nails and Feet

6 April – Day Six 30 Days of Inspiration

Are your hands super dry, tight, thirsty, or crying for moisture?  I get it.  With all the additional handwashing it can quickly take a toll on our skin.  Applying lotion alone may not be enough. Here’s a quick easy to make DIY hand scrub to get some of the dead skin off and allow your… Continue reading 6 April – Day Six 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

5 April – Day Five 30 Days of Inspiration

How can I help?  Who can I reach out to today to give a hand to?  Who can I encourage?  Times are very tough right now.  That is the God’s honest truth.  We are ALL affected one way or another.  I was thinking about how many people I know who are immunocompromised or ill.  The… Continue reading 5 April – Day Five 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

4 April – Day Four 30 Days of Inspiration

Greetings everyone.  Just a small reminder that although there are a lot of things out of our control, we do control what we put in our mouths and how often.  It is just so tempting to binge watch a show or movie and binge eat at the same time.  Chips, cookies, ice cream, pizza.  What… Continue reading 4 April – Day Four 30 Days of Inspiration

30 Days of Inspiration

2 April – Day Two

Photo by Finn on Unsplash Hello lovely people.  Today's inspiration is strictly internal.   I’m talking about mental health.  We are all stressed to some level because we are certainly not living a life we are accustomed to, as it is a very uncertain time.  If you are in the situation to be home, sheltering in place, or participating… Continue reading 2 April – Day Two

Nails and Feet

How to get Summer Ready Feet 🦶🏾🦶🏽🦶🏻…Hint: There’s Still Time!

While we are all at home practicing social distancing and self-quarantine we can be getting ourselves ready for the next season. The coronavirus has stopped almost everyone in their tracks with lots of time at home. We can take advantage of this unfortunate time and get our feet summer ready! Look down at your feet. … Continue reading How to get Summer Ready Feet 🦶🏾🦶🏽🦶🏻…Hint: There’s Still Time!

Blog Feed

Could You Write Yourself A Love Letter…

Photo by John Jennings on Unsplash It’s much more difficult than it sounds.  If you had to sit down and write about all the things you love and value about your husband, wife or significant other, most of us could fill the page.  We are so conditioned to express our love to others (which is a great thing). … Continue reading Could You Write Yourself A Love Letter…

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Love and Care For Yourself Where You Are

It’s painful sometimes as we wait for change. We fall, get back up. We have setbacks, then overcome. While we are waiting to get to that so called “finish line” the process can be less than desirable. Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash Aim to be sexy and confident no matter what stage you are in. Here me… Continue reading Love and Care For Yourself Where You Are

Mindset

No Resolutions Just Strive to Be Your Best You

So here we go guys….  The anticipated then dreaded “New Year's Resolutions”.  If you aren’t familiar with New Year’s Resolutions, it is nothing more than a time in the beginning of the year when people make a commitment to something or resolve to make some sort of change.   The changes can be very small such… Continue reading No Resolutions Just Strive to Be Your Best You

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About Me

Hi, I’m Shawn, owner of Modern Feminine Life! Thanks for stopping by my blog🧘🏾‍♀️. Modern Feminine Life is a channel about personal growth, mindset, and femininity. Femininity is an art as well as a way of life. I'm a lifestyle blogger and femininity consultant. I help women wherever they are in their journey and help… Continue reading About Me

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Announcement✨🛍✨

Hello Modern Feminine Life Subscribers! Today on Instagram I made an announcement that I’m so proud of.  (If you don’t follow me already, it’s not too late hint - hint ☺️🧘🏾‍♀️) The Modern Feminine Life Shop will open this Saturday, August 1st! More details to follow. You'll also notice I've subscribed to mailchimp (yay)! If… Continue reading Announcement✨🛍✨